As a wedding planner, I can control many things, unfortunately, the weather is not one of them. Rain is the nemisis of many a couple but it doesn’t have to be. As long as you are flexible and prepared your day can be as beautiful and often more memorable than planned.
Tip 1- Start at the beginning. Have a rain plan from day one. When looking at outdoor venues, ask about their plan B. If you are not happy with it, move on. If you have your heart set on an outside ceremony, make sure your venue and vendors can be flexible with the start time. It is great to be able to adjust the schedule to allow for a passing shower! If you are hoping for alfresco dining, please, please have a indoor option available or order a tent as back up. I know it is an added expense but it will ultimately insure the comfort of you and your guests.
Tip 2- Be prepared. Have cute wellies or cowboy boots for you and your wedding party. Ask if your venue provides umbrellas, if not, get some. There are many inexpensive options on line. I always try to bring 2 dozen of my “lucky” white umbrellas to every wedding. Somehow they keep raindrops at bay!
Tip 3- Be Decisive. Do not agonize over the weather on your wedding day. If inclement weather is in the forecast, commit to the plan and move on. Believe me, once you make the decision, you will be relieved!
Tip 4- Don’t kill the messenger. Yes, you are disappointed, but getting upset will not change the outcome. Make light of the cloudy skies and you will weather the storm. If you are smiling and happy, your partner, family and friends will be too.
Tip 5- Trust your event planner. They will steer you in the right direction while looking out for your best interest. They see the big picture and will work to make everything fall into place.
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Tip 6- Dance in the rain. Beautiful and special things happen in the rain. Any photographer will tell you that you have better color saturation on a cloudy day. Have your photographer take a few moments to find a few cozy nooks and crannies. The entire tone of your day will become more intimate and relaxed and guests will develop a sense of camaraderie that I love.
Remember, you are marrying the person of your dreams. Cherish every fleeting moment, come rain or come shine!
Photo Credits: Catskill Weddings, Aisle Walk Photography, Weddings by Two
